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The Story of Two Goats And Your Vote: How to Manage Yourself After The Election

2024-10-31T20:07:39+00:00

The Story of Two Goats And Your Vote:  How to Manage Yourself After The Election Once upon a time, in a certain forest, there lived a Black Goat and a White Goat. One day, as fate would have it, they both needed to cross a narrow bridge. Unfortunately, the bridge was so narrow that it only had enough space for one goat to cross at a time. The Black Goat arrived on one side of the bridge, while the White Goat approached from the other. Both goats were determined to cross first, and thus an argument ensued. Each goat was [...]

The Story of Two Goats And Your Vote: How to Manage Yourself After The Election2024-10-31T20:07:39+00:00

Ask Dr. Mike – Children truly hate their stepmother

2024-10-17T02:13:32+00:00

Dr. Mike, I know you do a lot of divorce work as a custody evaluator, and we’re struggling as a family and could use some guidance.  For quick review, we went through a very contentious and nasty separation and divorce, and we’ve been divorced now for 5 years.  I have full physical and legal custody of both of our children, and the children have a visitation schedule with their father.  My ex-husband remarried 9 months ago, and my children truly hate their stepmother, and hate is an understatement.  First, she’s 23 years younger than my ex-husband, which has been very [...]

Ask Dr. Mike – Children truly hate their stepmother2024-10-17T02:13:32+00:00

How To Talk To Your Children About The Attempted Assassination of Donald Trump

2024-07-15T15:47:06+00:00

How To Talk To Your Children About The Attempted Assassination of Donald Trump As a child psychologist, I mainly address the developmental, emotional, social and behavioral struggles of children, but sometimes the realities or events of the world can negatively impact a child’s emotional life – and parenting through things that are outside of a child’s control and are upsetting isn’t always easy. Certainly, the attempted assassination of former US president Donald Trump this past weekend is one of those realities and events.  While Mr. Trump is safe, the impact of what happened will be felt and discussed in [...]

How To Talk To Your Children About The Attempted Assassination of Donald Trump2024-07-15T15:47:06+00:00

What is Sharenting And Is It Bad?

2024-07-12T01:19:24+00:00

What is Sharenting And Is It Bad? “Sharenting,” which is a portmanteau of the words “parenting” and “sharing,” is a relatively new pop psychology term that involves the act of a parent excessively posting pictures, videos, updates and stories about their child or teen’s life.   And while a lot of pop psychology terms aren’t very helpful, I think this one is.  As a psychologist that works a lot with children and teens, the topic of parents digitally oversharing sensitive information about their children comes up frequently in therapy and with the action at times causing real problems and emotional [...]

What is Sharenting And Is It Bad?2024-07-12T01:19:24+00:00

Mindfulness for Families: Cultivating Peace and Connection

2024-05-23T04:11:42+00:00

Mindfulness for Families: Cultivating Peace and Connection In today's fast-paced world, finding moments of peace and connection as a family can be challenging. The demands of work, school and extracurricular activities for the kids often leave little time for more meaningful personal interactions. However, there can be real benefits to prioritizing and integrating mindfulness into family life; practicing mindfulness as a family can serve to reduce stress, enhance emotional bonding, and create greater peace and harmony. Mindfulness as a term has become quite common in everyday conversations, but what is mindfulness and what exactly does it mean to be more [...]

Mindfulness for Families: Cultivating Peace and Connection2024-05-23T04:11:42+00:00

How To Talk To Your Child About The Hamas-Israel Conflict

2023-10-22T01:57:29+00:00

How To Talk To Your Child About The Hamas-Israel Conflict Technology is ubiquitous, and as a result, our children are constantly being bombarded with information. Certainly, we as parents can do our best to make sure that the information our children view is age-appropriate, however, sometimes that’s not enough or sometimes the stories our children learn about are confusing and upsetting. While it’s one thing to roll up your sleeves to talk about the Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce romance with your 9-year-old daughter asking questions, discussing terrorism and conflict/war are much more complex subjects to manage. As a child [...]

How To Talk To Your Child About The Hamas-Israel Conflict2023-10-22T01:57:29+00:00

Teenagers and Cannabis: Understanding the Far-reaching Impact

2023-06-19T15:46:19+00:00

Teenagers and Cannabis: Understanding the Far-reaching Impact Cannabis became fully legal on July 1st, 2021 in Virginia for adults 21 years and older.  Cannabis is legal medicinally and recreationally, however, a final date for recreational or commercial sales has yet to be determined by the state.  Currently, 38 states, three territories and DC allow the medical use of cannabis, and 23 states, three territories and DC permit commercial sales.  As parents, whether we like it or not, cannabis is here to stay in Virginia, and we’re going to be seeing a heck of a lot more of it once commercial [...]

Teenagers and Cannabis: Understanding the Far-reaching Impact2023-06-19T15:46:19+00:00

Does Social Media Cause ADHD in Children and Adults?

2023-04-22T03:46:48+00:00

Does Social Media Cause ADHD in Children and Adults? The Impact of Social Media on ADHD: Separating Fact from Fiction Social media is ubiquitous, and while it’s a great way to stay connected to important others, to get news and to learn about what’s going on in the world, overusing or over relying on social media has become a problem for many people.  As a psychologist, I am often asked about the impact of social media overuse and whether or not it can cause ADHD.  With the rise of social media and technology, it's important to separate fact from fiction [...]

Does Social Media Cause ADHD in Children and Adults?2023-04-22T03:46:48+00:00

Navigating the path to independence in young adults

2023-03-24T01:19:46+00:00

Navigating the path to independence in young adults By Michael Oberschneider, Psy.D. The phenomenon of young adults struggling to transition into the next stage of life has become increasingly common in recent years, and this “failure to launch" or "failure to thrive" can have profound consequences. As a psychologist, I frequently work with parents who are concerned about their adult children's inability to mature and become independent. These parents frequently ask, “What did we do wrong?” or “How did we get here?” There can be multiple factors that contribute to young adults being delayed or off track developmentally. First identifying [...]

Navigating the path to independence in young adults2023-03-24T01:19:46+00:00

If You Want Your Kid to Get Straight A’s, Play Soccer

2022-11-28T02:21:03+00:00

If You Want Your Kid to Get Straight A’s, Play Soccer The benefits of soccer are tremendous.  Beyond the fun of the game itself, soccer teaches sportsmanship and teamwork, strengthens muscles, improves coordination and cardiovascular health, develops leadership skills, instills discipline, and increases confidence and self-esteem.  And soccer is as much a mental game as it is a physical game, with research showing a strong relationship between physical exercise and academic achievement. For example, a longitudinal study involving 5000 children and adolescents revealed a strong correlation between exercise and test score success in Science, English and Math.  Interestingly, this study [...]

If You Want Your Kid to Get Straight A’s, Play Soccer2022-11-28T02:21:03+00:00
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